Many find it incomprehensible that people shouldn’t be depressed when everything seems doing so well and so right in their life .
很多人覺得這難以理解，他們既擁有一切生活亦看似正常，為何抑鬱症患者會抑鬱？
Worst still , depressives are almost totally negative in all their attributions and also obsessively self-involved which makes them unattractive company.
最糟糕的是，抑鬱症患者幾乎對所有的歸因都很負面，也沈迷自我，這使得他們缺乏吸引力的。
They have difficulties in whom they interact .
他們跟人相處會遇到困難。
When anxiety kicks in they blame , they blame others , they blame themselves , they even fear of themselves .
當焦慮進入時他們指責，他們指責別人，他們責怪自己，他們甚至會害怕自己。
The mind constantly composing the suicidal notes while they might be cheerfully talking to people .
他們可能會很興奮地與人交談但同時間他們不斷有輕生的思想。
They are not sad or being not happy . They are confused , they are frustrated about the feeling .that’s the most fearful part .
他們不是傷心或暫時不開心。他們都搞不清楚，他們是沮喪。
Their mind keep telling them to commit suicide not only because they feel hopeless , but also they view their lives are weightless .
那是最可怕的部分。他們的腦袋不斷告訴他們生命是不重要的，不僅是因為他們感到絕望，同時他們認為他們的生命本來就是毫不重要的。
“Everybody dies isn’t ?”
“每個人都死的，不是嗎？”
They could be very agitated or slumped . People who don’t understand might say “what the fuck is going on in their mind ! They are fucking weird! ”
他們可以很煩躁或頹喪。不明白他們的人會說 :「他們的頭腦是怎麼回事！他們真是怪異！”
Just so you know , Brain is also an organ , it gets sick too .
Feel what they feel
其實只想你知道，大腦也是一個器官，它也會生病的。
我相信你不會跟一個手部受了傷的人說話：「你真的很怪異，你既然擁有身邊一切為何還會容許手部受傷？」
反之，當你看到別人的手受了傷時你會給他們慰問，那麼你看見腦袋生病了的人就不是更要擁抱他們嗎？
參考資料︰ http://www.ted.com/talks/
